Reflections on II Samuel 18-19

Absalom is killed and David returns to Jerusalem.

  • Pardon – As David returns to Jerusalem he pardons those who had sided with Absalom. He even makes Absalom’s general Amasa his new general.  Do you pardon those who hurt you?  Who do you need to forgive and reconcile with?
  • Revenge – Joab has a different heart than David. Rather than spare Absalom, he kills him.  Later he will kill Amasa who was to take his place as general.  What do you do when people cross you?  Are you seeking vengeance on someone?

Reflections on II Samuel 15-17

Absalom proclaims himself king.  Note:

  • Pride – Absalom wants everyone to be impressed with him – riding a chariot with 50 men running before him. He proudly seeks to take the kingdom from his own father.  What does your pride look like?  What will you do about it?
  • Loyalty – Absalom proclaims himself king, and many of David’s officials follow him. Yet many also remain loyal to David.  Are you loyal toward your leaders?  Associates?  Friends?  Family?  Church?  Can they count on you?

II Samuel 15-19: Hurting and Helping

(15-19) In 12:10-12, Nathan predicted several consequences to David’s sin.  How do we see these predictions come true in chapters 15-19?

(15-19) What words would you use to describe Absalom?

What evidence do you see of his pride?

What contrast do you see in David?

How does Hushai use Absalom’s pride to help David?

(15-19) David’s sin and Absalom’s pride doesn’t just cause hurt to themselves.  Who else is negatively affected by their sin, and how?

What principle or warning do you see for our own lives today?

(15-19) In midst of this mess, we see numerous examples of loyalty and friendship.  How do each of the following show loyalty to David, and how are they an example for us?

  • His servants –
  • Ittai the Gittite –
  • Abiathar and Zadok –
  • Hushai –
  • Shobi, Machir, and Barzillai –
  • Joab –

How do you need to be a better friend?

Reflections on II Samuel 12-14

David’s sin had dire consequences for himself and his family:

  • Consequences of sin – David confesses his sin, and God forgives him, but the consequences of his sin remain. His family and all of Israel will suffer because of his sin.  God will forgive your sin when you confess it to him, but the consequences of your sin may remain to hurt you and your loved ones.  Again – guard your life!
  • Following their father – Amnon follows his dad’s example by taking Tamar. Absalom responds by following his dad’s example and killing Amnon.  David’s adultery and murder are passed on to the next generation.  What sins do you need to overcome lest you pass them down to the next generation?

Reflections on II Samuel 8-11

Our passage today is the turning point of the book, as David begins in triumph, but then yields to temptation and sins against God.

  • Triumph – The Lord gave David victory after victory over his enemies. With what triumphs has God blessed you?  How do you think you should respond?
  • Temptation and sin – David goes for a walk and sees a woman bathing. At that point, he should have just turned away.  Instead he pursues it, and by the end he has committed adultery and murder.  How quickly we can fall!  Do you toy with temptations or do you run?  Are you on guard?

II Samuel 8-14: Triumph and Failure

(8, 10) What reason is given for David’s many victories (8:6, 14)?

What does this suggest about our victories, and how should we live in light of this truth?

How do Joab’s words balance the twin truths of man’s responsibility and God’s sovereignty?  What would it look like to err by stressing either truth?

(8-10) How does 8:15 point forward to a greater King (Isaiah 9:7)?

How is David’s kindness to Mephibosheth a picture of God’s kindness towards us (chapter 9)?

How do the actions of Hanun remind us of the consequences of rejecting God’s kindness (10:1-5, John 3:36)?

(11-14) David’s triumphs give way to failure.  Trace David’s path into sin (11:1-4).  What should David have done differently to overcome temptation?

One sin often leads to another sin.  How does David’s first sin snowball into many more?

Describe David’s sin from God’s point of view (11:27; 12:9, 14).  How might seeing sin in this way help us to overcome temptation?

David repents and God forgives, but consequences remain.  What consequences does Nathan mention in 12:10-14, and how do you see these consequences play out in chapters 12-14?

How should the reality of sin’s consequences help us overcome temptation?  Why does it often not?

Reflections on II Samuel 6-7

David brings the ark to Jerusalem and receives a covenant promise from God.  Consider:

  • Proper Worship – Uzzah touches the ark which was not to be touched. God kills him, and the worship service is done.  We must worship God according to his commands.  Later they finish moving the ark.  David is dancing and rejoicing before the Lord.  Do you worship with this kind of joy and enthusiasm?
  • Davidic Covenant – God promises David that his kingdom and throne will never end. Ultimately this promise is fulfilled in Jesus, the Son of David, who receives the same promises in Luke 1:32-33.  Have you bowed your life before your king?

Reflections on II Samuel 1-5

With Saul dead, David becomes king of Judah, and then over all Israel.  Observe:

  • Attitude towards leaders – Saul has been hunting David for several years, but David doesn’t rejoice when he hears that Saul died. Instead he mourns.  Saul was God’s anointed leader, and even though he didn’t follow the Lord, his death was a tragedy.  What is your attitude towards your leaders?
  • Seeking direction – When the Philistines hear that David is king, they prepare for battle. David seeks the Lord’s direction and follows it, and wins the battle.  For what in your life do you need to seek God’s direction?  As you read his Word, are you seeking to follow his directions?

II Samuel 1-7: David Becomes King

(1) How does David respond to Saul’s death (v17-27)?  How does this relate to Jesus’ call to love our enemies?

What should this call look like in our own lives today?  Be specific.

(1) How might David’s response to the Amalekite relate to our culture’s current obsession with assisted suicide?

(2-4) Why does Joab kill Abner?  How does David respond?  Why?

How does David respond to the murder of Ishbosheth?  Why?

How are David’s responses informative for us today as we think about our own leaders?

(5) How does David respond when the Philistines come against him, and how is his response instructive for us?

When did you respond in this way during the past week?

(6) What principles do we learn about worship in v1-11?  In v12-19?

How might we apply these principles to our worship today?

(7) David wants to build a house for the Lord, but instead God will build a house for David.  What promises does God make to David in v12-16?

In what ways are these verses fulfilled in Solomon?

In what ways are these verses fulfilled in Jesus?

How does David respond to God’s promises in v18-29?  What principles about worship can we learn from his response?

Reflections on I Samuel 28-31

In our passage today we see two men, two battles, and two outcomes.  Observe:

  • Sin and judgment – When God wouldn’t answer him, Saul again took matters into his own hands and sinned by going to a medium. The medium calls up Samuel who delivers the pronouncement of God’s judgment – Saul and his sons will die in the coming battle.  When God doesn’t respond as you want, do you take matters into your hands?
  • Obedience and blessing – David finds that an enemy has taken away his wives. He first turns to God and finds strength in the Lord (30:6).  He then seeks God’s direction and follows it – and rescues his wives.  Where do you turn first in calamity?  Are you following God’s direction?