We are busy because we try to do too many things. We do too many things because we say yes to too many people. We say yes to all these people because we want them to like us and we fear their disapproval.
– Kevin DeYoung in Crazy Busy
We are busy because we try to do too many things. We do too many things because we say yes to too many people. We say yes to all these people because we want them to like us and we fear their disapproval.
– Kevin DeYoung in Crazy Busy
We are here and there and everywhere. We are distracted. We are preoccupied. We can’t focus on the task in front of us. We don’t follow through. We don’t keep our commitments. We are so busy with a million pursuits that we don’t even notice the most important things slipping away.
– Kevin DeYoung in Crazy Busy
The fact that Paul singles out homosexual relations as a conspicuous example of the human heart suppressing the truth and turning from God suggests that we must not soft-pedal as no big deal what the Bible underlines as particularly egregious rebellion. And it means we must face squarely the serious indictment God’s Word levies against the individuals and churches that “give approval to those who practice them” (v. 32). It is no little mistake in God’s eyes to encourage and support what harms our fellow creatures and dishonors our Creator.
– Kevin DeYoung on Romans 1 in What Does The Bible Really Teach About Homosexuality
Kevin DeYoung’s new book What The Bible Really Teaches About Homosexuality is a short, yet incredibly helpful, book written for Christians to better understand the Bible’s teaching on homosexuality. In a world opposing, ridiculing, and often attacking the Scripture’s teachings, this book is a much needed resource for the church.
Part One looks at many of the most relevant verses related to homosexuality. He happily begins with Genesis 1-2 which is foundational for the Biblical understanding of homosexuality as it defines how God designed humanity, sexuality, and marriage (chapter 1).
He then goes on to look at Genesis 19 (chapter 2), Leviticus 18 and 20 (chapter 3), Romans 1 (chapter 4), and I Corinthians 6 and I Timothy 4 (chapter 5). Each chapter addresses the basic issues and shows how the text supports the traditional interpretation. I particularly found his connection of the words used in I Corinthians 6 and I Timothy 4 with the words found in Leviticus 18 and 20 to be quite helpful and conclusive.
Certainly more could be said for each passage, but overall DeYoung does an admirable job summarizing the main points in an accessible way for the every-day Christian. The chapters taken together provide a good case for the traditional Biblical understanding.
Part Two addresses common objections to the Biblical understanding of homosexuality. In chapter 6, he shows that the Bible really does take homosexuality, and indeed all sexual sin, very seriously (this is not an irrelevant issue). Chapter 7 points to the widespread homosexual activity in the Greek and Roman world that counters the often heard argument that Paul wasn’t talking about the same homosexual behavior we see today. In reading this chapter and the earlier one on Romans 1, I was reminded that we are quickly returning to the religious climate of the early church, and that we shouldn’t be surprised by the rise of homosexuality as our nation veers further and further from God.
Other chapters helpfully address the necessity of repentance for the Christian and the church, and the folly of the “wrong side of history” argument. I thought he drifted a bit in chapter 8 as he dissected the sin of gluttony, and again in chapter 12 as he discussed the church at Thyatira in Revelation 2, but perhaps these have been important points in experiences he has had on this issue.
Meanwhile, chapter 11 was spot on as it addressed the objection that the Bible’s position on homosexuality just isn’t fair. He treats the struggle of having homosexual desires, the necessity of celibacy in connection to those desires, and the misery many feel because of the struggle. Here DeYoung moves from scholar to pastor, and addresses these real feelings with both grace and truth. This chapter alone is worth the price of the book for any Christian with friends or family members who identify themselves as homosexual.
All in all, the book makes an excellent resource for any Christian who wants to better understand the Bible’s teaching on this important issue. As a pastor I can see myself recommending it to people in my church and using it as a resource in my own teaching.
Disclaimer: I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
By spending time with the Lord in the Word and prayer, we are likely to gain new perspective on our hassles and headaches. Starting each day with eternity makes our petty problems and long to-do lists seem less significant. By sitting at the feet of Jesus, we will grow more like him—more patient, more loving, more thoughtful. We’ll see that our screens do not satisfy like our Savior. We’ll see that wisdom was not born yesterday, or thirty-four seconds ago on social media. We’ll learn to keep our complaints to a minimum and our eyes on the cross. And we’ll become more helpful to those around us.
– Kevin DeYoung in Crazy Busy
We have to believe that the most significant opportunity before us every day is the opportunity to sit at the feet of Jesus. We won’t rearrange our priorities unless we really believe this is the best one.
– Kevin DeYoung in Crazy Busy
We all know we need rest from work, but we don’t realize we have to work hard just to rest. We have to plan for breaks. We have to schedule time to be unscheduled. That’s the way life is for most of us. Scattered, frantic, boundary-less busyness comes naturally. The rhythms of work and rest require planning.
I like Kevin DeYoung. I’ve heard him speak, been to his church for a conference, and read a few of his books. So when I was offered the opportunity to get a free digital copy of his new book, Crazy Busy, to review on this blog, I was all for it…except that I’m crazy busy. Would I have time to read it? Even though the book is only about 100 pages long, this has been a crazy busy week. But somehow, I just finished reading it, so now it’s time for a quick review.
Let’s start with a quick summary. DeYoung starts with three dangers of being crazy busy (including a loss of joy – can you relate?), and then offers seven diagnoses, plus one thing we must do (spend time with the Lord – which he points out has some amazing applications to our busyness). Along the way, he makes clear that the problem is not being busy. It is good to be busy, provided we are busy for the right reasons, within the right boundaries, and with the right attitude. Which brings us back to the seven diagnoses. Let me highlight three that challenged me.
His second diagnosis is that I am trying to do what God does not expect me to do. That is, I’m trying to do more than I can as one finite person. I have recently been big-time challenged with the importance of missions. I want to make a difference for Christ. I want to see missions go forth into all the world. And there is much that I can and should do. But I have limits. I can’t financially support, pray for, or read about every missions group that is out there. I am not the Christ. I am only one man. And for that matter, DeYoung reminds us, even Jesus didn’t do everything – as the quotes I posted from the book this morning make clear. If I try to do everything, I will indeed be crazy busy. I must decide what God wants me to do, and focus on that – like Jesus did.
His fifth diagnosis is that I am letting the screen strangle my soul. If you are reading this blog, this may be a struggle for you as it is for me and DeYoung. How many times do I have to check my e-mail or FB each day? How many times did I check both one more time before finally getting back to read his book? There is an technological allure that can quickly become an addiction. And how much time do we waste surfing the web or staring at some mindless show on TV. Not, DeYoung is quick to say, that technology is bad, but there needs to be some boundaries.
His sixth diagnosis is that I am failing to incorporate a proper balance of work and rest into my life. Here in a few pages is an incredibly wise and practical look at the implications of the Sabbath principle for today, and then some important words on the necessity of sleep. This chapter alone is worth the price of the book, and worth much further reflection and application on my part in the days to come.
If you struggle with being not just busy, but crazy busy, this is a good book to pick up. Not every diagnosis connected with me, and probably won’t with you. But the ones that do will likely be words you need to hear (or read). I know they were for me.
P.S. Through the end of the month, Westminster is selling this book for 50% off – $6.00.
Jesus didn’t do it all. Jesus didn’t meet every need. He left people waiting in line to be healed. He left one town to preach to another. He hid away to pray. He got tired. He never interacted with the vast majority of people on the planet. He spent thirty years in training and only three years in ministry. He did not try to do it all. And yet, he did everything God asked him to do….
He was busy, but never in a way that made him frantic, anxious, irritable, proud, envious, or distracted by lesser things…. Jesus knew the difference between urgent and important. He understood that all the good things he could do were not necessarily the things he ought to do….
Ultimately, Jesus was driven by the Spirit. He was driven by his God-given mission. He knew his priorities and did not let the many temptations of a busy life deter him from his task….
What are your priorities? What’s your mission?
– Kevin DeYoung in Crazy Busy
It’s okay to be busy at times. You can’t love and serve others without giving of your time. So work hard; work long; work often. Just remember it’s not supposed to be about you. Feed people, not your pride.